(EN)(blog)(reflection) Unmask people!

All people wear masks. Regardless of whether "they" are the ones who use them. Since "we" also use them. It is the personal identification system that we use to present ourselves to the world. We're going to drop "those" chews for now. I want to talk about much more dangerous masks. And they are the ones that we put on another person. And in this act we label people to "roles". And we prevent ourselves from knowing the truth that they are. We violate the bond, accusing and pointing out with static concepts. That is why we are going to find out how to learn to recognize them. Understand why this dynamic of ours is holding us back from knowing new truths.

We put masks from our gaze and with our words as well. What does it mean to put on masks? It means imposing our "truth" on another. Our truth is unique and has its reasons. It is a deep part of our building and learning process. But seen like this, we stagnate. Let's think and remember some personal examples.

When we are fathers (mothers), uncles (aunts), grandparents (grandmothers). The look on the other children, nephews, grandchildren. It is usually static, this is where we will look more. Someone remembers hearing "I'm not a baby. I'm a big girl, I'm 4 years old." This is the process of putting masks on another. This "argument" can evolve. But his search will always be to resignify himself to our gaze. But the error is ours, we have violated, and we have ignored a new truth. Things, people, change. Layers in another time to which we wait. And sometimes in ways that escape our gaze. The other is another, with his freedoms and rights. But do we really want to miss out on really knowing each other?

There are moments where time passed, a life or two too. And we meet again on the path of life with someone from the past. It may be someone who harmed us, who made decisions and paths different from ours. Processes that generated distance and perhaps injuries as well. We all have one of those people or several. I invite you to look at it right now and give me a list of 10 healthy, positive, and pleasant qualities of that person. You can see them? Is it easy or difficult? Or does he still have "some" mask with which you pigeonholed him into that "role"? This person may have changed. This person for others may have characteristics that you cannot see today. In this process, I do not invite you to heal that bond. If not free yourself from your past, pain, or processes that led you to put masks on others.

In the game of putting on masks, we feel comfortable. It allows us to tag people and situations. "Understand them quickly" and know how to choose and discard things that we do not want to live. Now our consciousness is dynamic, it breathes, feels, studies, beats, grows. And it suffers and gets sick when we take and hold static programs. Let's stop sustaining patterns that cause us harm. We recover the look of amazement and discover the changes day by day, month by month, year by year. Of those, we love, respect, and are in our lives.

It is in the present where we always have a chance. To live, heal and know the present truths. It is where we can change. Stop choosing to live a present truth. Or sustain them from a much greater love. From that love that has been pushing us from within for a long time. This process will not be easy, nor will it happen in an instant. But step by step. We will be able to see the world as it really wants to show us. As it really is today and now.

This is the secret of how we connect with the world. With the reality and truth that surrounds us. If we can hold this principle in our psychic programming. We are going to achieve more clarity, bond better, and leave the reverie. The truth was always there. Now we have more clarity to choose to see it. The first step to change our reality is to really know it as it is. Let's look with courage, and hold our hearts in a big hug.

I help you to know your personal masks and the ones you put on others. I extend my hand to you so that you can consult me ​​on how to recognize them ... And you can change ways of connecting with others.

I hug them enormously. Nice things are coming. One step at a time. Without stopping. Taking thrust from the blue flame.

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