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人生法则

22/09/14 22:32

看完了乔丹彼得森的《人生十二法则》演讲,有很多被鼓舞到的细节地方。

记下核心的12条法则:

  • do not carelessly denigrate social institutions or creative achievement
  • imagine who you could be, and then aim single-mindedly at that
  • do not hide unwanted things in the fog
  • notice that opportunity lurks where responsibility has been abdicated
  • do not do what you hate
  • abandon ideology
  • work as hard as you possibly can on at least one thing and see what happens
  • try to make one room in your home as beautiful as possible
  • if old memories still upset you,write them down carefully and completely
  • plan and work diligently to maintain the romance in your relationship
  • do not allow yourself to become resentful, deceitful, or arrogant
  • be grateful in spite of your suffering

在最结尾所回答的那个问题,在我们把世界变得更好之前,12条法则都依然是做得不够好的。

那一段话,值得单独摘下来。

关于"世界有问题"与"我有问题",需要改变的是我——那一段也非常地令人动容。